Dating Tips - ***SUCCESS STORY*** Well I ha

***SUCCESS STORY***

Well I have to say I was a little skeptical
about your book at first. I've never been very
successful with women. I've always been the shy,
quiet type that treat women like a prize and act
like a wussy. Well after a few newsletters I
decided to give it a shot. Well it all made sense
to me so I got your CD series and it's even better
then the book. So I decided to try the C&F method.
I've been on some free online dating site for a few years and
occasionally I would get a response. A little over
a week ago I changed my profile so I wasn't such a
wussy and pleading with women with how good of a
catch I'd be (as most women say they want a nice
guy) In less then a week, I've gotten 5 responses.
It's amazing. I'm only about half way through with
the CD's too can't wait to see what else they
hold.

JN from NY

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh, Ye of little faith...

Remember something.

Women are always INTERPRETING everything you
say.

In other words, they want to know what things
MEAN.

When you say, "I'm a great guy" in your
profile, a woman reading it says to herself,
"yeah, right... If you were a great guy, then you
wouldn't need to SAY it. You're probably a loser
who WISHES that he were a great guy."

On the other hand, if you write a Cocky & Funny
profile that talks about how picky you are and
that you're trying this online dating thing as a
last resort because all the attractive women you
meet bore you... then a woman will think to
herself, "Ah ha! A challenge! I'll bet you that I
can get his attention...".

Great job, and keep me posted on your future
success stories.


***QUESTION***

Double D Dog!

First let's get the formalities out of the
way... you are the Boddhisatva of Bootay! To your
newsletter subscribers...you know you wait for
each new mail from this guy...thinking you'll "get
it" sooner or later without checking out the e-
book...GET IT DONE! You'll thank yourself. I
took you up on your 7-day offer and read DYD the
day I downloaded it. My situation is a little
different. After literally years of being single
and settling for 2:30 am random drunk hookups, I
finally triggered ATTRACTION in a great woman
about four months ago. I don't know how I got it
right, because it's in my nature to be a Wuss, but
put 100 monkeys in a room with typewriters and
eventually you'll get the complete works of
Shakespeare, right? Anyway, we hit it off
really well. In the beginning she was a little
too instantly infatuated, and I had to say NO to
many of her requests for my time...not because I
was working your program yet, but it was just too
much for a brand new thing and I actually have a
life. Of course this drove her nuts for me.
About 3 months into this thing, she starts turning
the tables with the testing, and it goes like this
"I'm really falling for you, and this is new for
me. I usually have a really hard time with
commitment because I like variety in my life."

The sex is very good...multiple O's for both of
us regularly. I think she's just got an amazon
appetite! A few weeks later she says to me that
she wants to meet this guy she's been chatting
with on the Internet since before I met her...you
know, see what might happen and back to the
variety thing. This triggered the Wuss in me and
I spent a good hour being jealous and needy before
coming to my senses and telling her to go check it
out with my blessing. She says she changed her
mind, but ever since then I found myself groveling
to make her happy and keep her with me. I became
jealous at the stupidest things. I was full of
FEAR and freaking out. Somewhere along the way I
started getting your mail (cue the angelic
music)...then 3 days ago I got the ebook, read it
and it all clicked. So, realizing I was already
dangerously deep down Wussy Way, I arranged a
unique date with her. I told her where I was
going to be hanging out that night, told her to
put on the sexiest thing she could find and meet
me there at whatever time she wanted to and we
would pretend we were meeting randomly for the
first time. I applied the C/F approach, body
language and other tips from your book and she
definitely noticed consciously that I was up to
something, but nevertheless, VIOLA! I triggered
her attraction again. Not only that, but I
learned new things about her and how she works
that I had tuned-out based on established
expectations and self-centered wussiness. We
communicated better, laughed more, had WAY OVER
THE TOP sex and a great conversation early into
the morning afterwards.

I'm converted Dude, and the best part is that
these tools have taken away my fear of losing her.
I love this woman, but if her Attraction or need
for variety cause her to stray, I KNOW WHAT TIME
IT IS! A million thanks! m

ps - if you haven't already, check out a book
called The MultiOrgasmic Man...dynamite for when
the rubber hits the road...so to speak.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I'll check that book out.

I'm kind of afraid, man. I might not ever leave
my house again.

OK, back to your email...

I really enjoyed your story.

I particularly like the fact that you're using
the things you're learning to KEEP a great woman
that you enjoy...

I think that too many guys make the mistake of
assuming that it's all about GETTING the girl...
and they put far too little emphasis on keeping a
great girl once they find one.

And the fact is, that until you're in a
situation where you've found a great woman that
you'd like to keep in your life, you won't realize
just how important it is to KNOW HOW to keep her.

You did exactly the right thing when she
started to talk about possibly seeing another guy.

I know that tests like this one can be a pain
in the ass, but this is reality... and we have to
deal with it when it shows up.

I've been in many situations with women where
I've felt like a jealous, insecure Wussbag
myself... I get it.

I'm proud of you for coming to your senses and
telling her to go check it out if she wanted to.

And then you did a GREAT thing by figuring out
how to "restart" your relationship with her and
put some FIRE back into the situation.

I honestly believe that most guys want to find
a great woman that they can click with, have fun
with, and enjoy a relationship with.

The problem is that most guys have no idea how
to GET and then KEEP an attractive woman's
attention.

They're two very different challenges, and I'm
glad to hear that you're working on the "keep"
challenge in your own life.


***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

I bet you get this all the time: My life has
changed, thanks to your books and the advanced
series. I get it! But I'm having so much fun
relating to people in general, that I'm in no rush
to get an email or go out on a date. Just being
able to talk to anyone about anything, and being
comfortable with it, is an incredible gift. In a
way, I'm on a date with a girl just by having a
conversation, in my mind. And who the hell cares
what she thinks... Hehehe...

I was so amazed at what I learned in the books,
that I wrote you a spontaneous email. Then another
when I started to "feel" results. You should
know that I'm not the type of guy to do that, and
here I am doing it again after listening to the
advanced series. I walked into work yesterday,
and the most gorgeous (no sh*t!) chick on staff is
staring at me from across the room, interrupting
her own conversation. I just cockily smiled and
winked, then watched her until she turned away.
That momentary connection was one of the most
intense feelings I've ever had. That's just the
extreme example. I have these connections with
just about everyone, including the "cool guys",
who now treat me in a more respectful manner (or
maybe it's just my perception, but who cares).

I've been a slob all of my life, and now I'm
committed to keeping my house, car and myself
clean and organized.

I'm listening to the CDs over and over in my
car, and I keep picking up something that I
missed. Turning a negative thought to a "how do
I..." thought is my latest favorite. THAT was a
bombshell for me.

Please accept my deepest gratitude. I wish you
the best in life. Those of us who've benefited
from your teachings need to find a way to get you
sainted... Hehehe...

Thanks David!! You're the best!!

JH Burbank, CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, it's interesting, and you're right
on... When you start behaving differently, it has
an amazing effect on all kinds of different
things, and on many different types of
relationships.

I regularly get "special" treatment in bars,
clubs, restaurants, coffee shops, etc., because I
"get it" myself.

One of the benefits of being interesting,
funny, challenging, and unpredictable, that I
don't really mention, comes up in situations where
you're seeing the same person (especially the same
woman) over and over.

Examples are: Favorite coffee shops, favorite
restaurants, grocery stores you visit often, etc.

When you tease and bust on a woman who you're
NOT interested in, and continue to keep the sexual
tension up, you'll find that all kinds of magical
things will happen.

The list of things I've gotten for free at
restaurants, bars, and coffee shops is pretty
extensive... all courtesy of some cute girl that I
was flirting with.

And good job getting other aspects of your life
together. It will lead to good things for you.

Nice!


***QUESTION***

i met a girl i liked, we were hanging out and
she started talking about how i had good chances
with her. and a couple days later i asked her if
she wanted to go out to dinner she said yes and i
let her pick the place, we went to dinner, and the
whole dinner she talked about her ex and i paid
like 40 bucks for dinner. when we got back to her
house i got the cold shoulder when i tried talking
to her and got told she was tired and i should
probably go, can u tell me what it was i did wrong
there?

thanx m

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oohhhhhh, bad news.

These types of situations SUCK. Really.

First of all, if a woman ever says something
like, "You have good chances with me", either:

1) Run

...or...

2) Look at her, shake your head with a
"disappointed parent" look on your face and say,
"Yeah, well you don't have such hot chances with
me... so watch yourself".

Secondly, don't offer to take this type of
woman TO DINNER.

Thirdly, if you DO offer, NEVER let HER choose
the place.

Fourthly, if a woman ever starts talking about
her EX at dinner, stop her and say, "Heyyyyyy,
wait a minute here. If you want therapy, that will
be $200 per hour, and I have a two hour minimum.
And it will have to be later, because I'm enjoying
my dinner right now".

Fifthly, you need to learn how to take things
from one step to the next with a woman, because
going back to her place and "trying to talk to
her" isn't the answer, my man.

What did you do wrong?

Basically everything, right from the beginning.

Stop that!


***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave, I am in my forties, successful in
business, live in a nice condo, drive a great
auto, in great physical shape and am considered
handsome. The moral to this story is that none of
these matter! "Getting it" is the key that
unlocked the door to my success with women. I have
your e-book, cd series and of course the
collection of weekly newsletters. I have become a
student of "getting it" and creating attraction in
women. I am currently dating a 9.5 on a scale
where 10 is drop dead gorgeous, extremely
intelligent, witty, sexually creative, etc. I
constantly tease her, push her away, insist on her
treating me on dates, give her the gift of missing
me thus driving her crazy to the point she can't
help but call me! I have kicked her out of my
condo for acting bratty on two occasions, pick on
her for minor flaws (that she pointed out
initially) ...example: she asked "Do you think my
ass needs some more toning, I need to focus on
those exercises in the gym" , well, I have taken
full advantage of this to bust her balls! HERE'S
THE KICKER...she will look me in the eyes with a
sultry look and say to l me "no man has ever
treated me so good and made me feel so complete as
a woman like you do".

Now, let me qualify this for the "getting it"
challenged! I am never cruel and I never ridicule
her, nor do I openly embarrass her in public, I am
always a gentleman, treat her as the princess that
she is....but I am the new me...extremely
confident, cocky & funny, romantic, and
powerful...I assume I am in control in every
situation... Do I have times of doubt and areas I
screw up? Sure, but it just doesn't matter,
remember I am a student and students must make
mistakes to learn.

Dave, thanks for the hard work and diligent
research required on your part, hope this can be
an encouragement to others!

rh atlanta, ga

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, this is one of the most IRONIC and
interesting things about learning how to be
successful with women.

NEVER in my life have I had so many women give
me so many compliments as when I TEASE AND BUST ON
THEM LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW.

Why is this?

Because when you're doing these things, the
woman gets the DEEPER message...

That you're the kind of man she's been looking
for all her life.

The kinds of things you're doing are triggering
and satisfying drives and urges that have been
wired into her mental, physical, and emotional
systems for millions of years.

You're activating powerful sexual drives and
female emotions that most men will NEVER trigger
inside of her... and she's grateful to you for it.

Even though an outsider might look at an
evening that you spend with her and say "He didn't
treat her very well... he was difficult, very
challenging, and not complimentary at all. I don't
think he's going to get very far with her"...

...while at the end of the evening the woman
you're with will go home with a deep, profound
feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be
able to describe.