Dating Horoscopes march 24th

March 24th, 2009

Aries: You’re totally bored with your job and want to make a bit more money. Have you considered pursuing a side gig — something that more reflects your true passions? Whatever it is, you’ll come into contact with others who share the same interests and the extra money won’t hurt, either.

Meet Aries Singles

Taurus love horoscope Taurus: You’re a target for the annoying people of the world today — especially that obnoxious guy or gal at the office, who doesn’t shut up. Protect yourself with a closed door or earphones. If that doesn’t work, you may have to use the direct approach.

Meet Taurus Singles

Gemini love horoscope Gemini: Little white lies — don’t do it. Nothing eats away at your confidence and self-esteem like dishonesty. Even if you’re trying to impress someone, you’re better off being genuine. Can’t figure out who you are? Maybe it’s time to make a personal mission statement and stick to it.

Meet Gemini Singles

Cancer love horoscope Cancer: Your emotional side is still a bit rambunctious, but you’re also grounded. This could be the perfect time to take a risk in the love department. The planets say yes, but what does your heart say?

Meet Cancer Singles

Leo love horoscope Leo: Your house might burn down, your credit cards might melt, but darn it, you better look good — no matter what. Yep. It’s all about appearances right now. So if you’re not dressed to the nines, you’re way off the mark.

Meet Leo Singles

Virgo love horoscope Virgo: Dreaminess, nostalgia — you’re plagued by all of it. What a great opportunity to reach back in your past and rekindle a past but platonic relationship. An old friend you weren’t attracted to suddenly makes your belly flutter. What’s this all about? Pursue it further.

Meet Virgo Singles

Libra love horoscope Libra: Your need to feel close to other humans may lead you astray. Don’t confuse love for lust. Hopping into bed with someone just to fill the void won’t foster any sort of closeness. In fact, you’ll feel emptier than before. Friends and family provide the kinship you crave.

Meet Libra Singles

Scorpio love horoscope Scorpio: An infatuation isn’t necessarily a two-way street — more often than not, a crush is a one-sided ordeal. So don’t go reading into things right now. If you want to know where you stand with someone, just ask. If they don’t feel the same way, don’t waste precious time stalking them.

Meet Scorpio Singles

Sagittarius love horoscope Sagittarius: If you have any outstanding taxes or late bills, now’s a good time to catch up. Even if you can’t make a huge dent in the balance, the effort will make you feel a million times better about yourself. At least it’s a start!

Meet Sagittarius Singles

Capricorn love horoscope Capricorn: Nothing like a bit of volunteer work to put things in perspective, especially when you’re feeling particularly gnarly about your dating situation. Walk in someone else’s shoes for a change — feel the gratitude.

Meet Capricorn Singles

Aquarius love horoscope Aquarius: It’s best to keep a safe distance from people or situations that cause you undue stress. So if you’re not digging someone’s profile, don’t agree to go on a date with him or her. Chillin’ by yourself is way easier than having to deal with a psycho lunatic.

Meet Aquarius Singles

Pisces love horoscope Pisces: Flirt without actually flirting — does that make sense? You’re excellent at making people feel fantastic without even batting an eyelash. Your skill comes in particularly handy with a boss or someone else in a supervisory position. A little moxie never hurt anyone.

Meet Pisces Singles

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Dating horoscopes March 02

March 2nd, 2009

Aries: Brevity is an awesome goal when it comes to dating right now. Instead of planning long, drawn-out dinners, shoot for short but fun-packed outings. Meet for dessert or breakfast — keep it succinct. Time management is all about strategy!

Meet Aries Singles

Taurus love horoscope Taurus: Read the fine print. Before you sign on with any dating service, skim the company’s privacy policy. You’ll be surprised to find that your best interest isn’t theirs. And find out what other protective measures the site employs to oversee your sensitive info.

Meet Taurus Singles

Gemini love horoscope Gemini: The eyes reveal everything — it’s the doorway to the dater’s soul. So before you even formally meet someone, you’ll know right away what’s what. Just pay attention to their (or your gaze). If he or she (or you) is discomforted by lingering leer, move on.

Meet Gemini Singles

Cancer love horoscope Cancer: Cleanliness is a virtue and yes, people are paying attention. If it’s not a jeans-and-t-shirt event, stay away from denim and jersey — dress appropriately. And before you leave the house, brush you teeth, even if you don’t think your breath smells.

Meet Cancer Singles

Leo love horoscope Leo: Time is totally on your side, so don’t rush anything. Getting to know someone isn’t a sprint race — it’s a slow process. Avoid revealing too much info too soon. Dates don’t need to know your address, sexual history or other uber-personal tidbits.

Meet Leo Singles

Virgo love horoscope Virgo: It’s natural to want to pair up with someone — that’s just the human condition. But you’re not right now, so get over it. Meanwhile, go for the gusto. Have a blast and stop thinking about all that green grass on the other side. It’s not nearly as fantastic as you think it is.

Meet Virgo Singles

Libra love horoscope Libra: Remember, the foundation of any good relationship, romantic or otherwise, is friendship. So if you’re not feeling that connection with a certain someone, it’s better to end it sooner than later. If you can’t open up and share honestly now, little will change down the road.

Meet Libra Singles

Scorpio love horoscope Scorpio: If you have to convince yourself that this person is ‘the one,’ you’re trying too hard. Don’t allow desperation to force you into a situation you’re not entirely comfortable with. Better to be alone than to feel obligated to couple with someone you’re not that into.

Meet Scorpio Singles

Sagittarius love horoscope Sagittarius: Don’t waffle too much when a snap decision comes your way — just make a choice. Opportunity knocks: the choice is now or never. Your intuition won’t fail you now. Just trust the process and do the next right thing — it’ll work out perfectly!

Meet Sagittarius Singles

Capricorn love horoscope Capricorn: Someone’s holding back a bit of information that’s negatively impacting your life in some way — most likely in the romance department. Until this person releases their knowledge, progress will cease. Not to worry, though — that tongue will loosen up shortly.

Meet Capricorn Singles

Aquarius love horoscope Aquarius: Someone big, really big (such as the boss of the boss) will come up short in the solution department. And guess who steps in to save the day? You! The stars bestow wisdom and knowledge on that golden head of yours — it’s a fantastic day to make a power move!

Meet Aquarius Singles

Pisces love horoscope Pisces: That moxie of yours really works some magic for you when it comes to restoring old relics from the past. It’s a great time to renew flagging friendships and dig up dating dinosaurs. You’ll discover awesome attributes you missed before.

Meet Pisces Singles

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Dating horoscope Feb 28

March 1st, 2009

Aries: You could definitely use a little discipline right now — everything’s sort of out of control. You’re spending too much money, eating too many burgers and wasting too much time on the Internet. Rein it all in. When you feel like doing something bad, go for a walk.

Meet Aries Singles

Taurus love horoscope Taurus: Getting and staying organized doesn’t have to be complicated or time consuming — and that’s been the problem all along. If you’re missing appointments and running out of time, write it all down on a plain, old sheet of paper. Keep it with you always to make notes.

Meet Taurus Singles

Gemini love horoscope Gemini: When you prioritize, you feel unstoppable! Knowing what tasks lie ahead gives you the freedom to explore the hours and minutes. So use your downtime to your advantage. Pay a few bills during lunch or catch up on your book during your commute: dead time is productive time.

Meet Gemini Singles

Cancer love horoscope Cancer: Get in the habit of rewarding yourself. Accomplish your to-dos early on — that way you’ll have the rest of your day free. And when your tasks are completed, do something nice, pamper yourself. Relax and enjoy your unencumbered time.

Meet Cancer Singles

Leo love horoscope Leo: Multitasking won’t work for your right now. You have too many loose ends to deal with — so instead of trying to tie them up at one time, pick one and follow it through. Accomplish one thing at a time and forget about everything else until you’re ready to move on.

Meet Leo Singles

Virgo love horoscope Virgo: The way to get ahead right now, especially when dealing customer service staff, is to act nicely. Being a jerk will get you absolutely nowhere — you’ll attract more flies with honey than with vinegar. So don’t scream into the phone ask pleasantly and calmly for satisfaction.

Meet Virgo Singles

Libra love horoscope Libra: Purpose, purpose, what is your purpose? If only you knew. You’re single and have lots of time to explore what it’s all about. That’s why now’s a great time to seek those answers. Experiment, ask questions and study — follow a path of enlightenment.

Meet Libra Singles

Scorpio love horoscope Scorpio: If you’re ready to take an online relationship offline and into the flesh, the stars say go for it! Just keep your expectation in check and if you’re not instantly blown away, don’t sweat it. This real-time connection will take a minute to grow.

Meet Scorpio Singles

Sagittarius love horoscope Sagittarius: When it comes to conversation, you’re sort of in a rut. It’s really the same topics and the same old people. If you’re feeling a little edgy today, and you should, talk about issues that normally fall outside your comfort zone. Whether it’s philosophy or sports, ask lots of questions.

Meet Sagittarius Singles

Capricorn love horoscope Capricorn: Keep to yourself today. It’s more about blending in than standing out, especially in conversation. Don’t reveal too much personal information — allow everyone else to talk up a storm. You’ll find out way more juice than you bargained for!

Meet Capricorn Singles

Aquarius love horoscope Aquarius: Long-standing, ongoing bad blood between you and a family member is taking up way too much space in your head. In fact, it’s leaving little for anything else. If possible, clear it up immediately — you shouldn’t waste any of your awesome single energy on baggage.

Meet Aquarius Singles

Pisces love horoscope Pisces: Between your potent personality and effective energy, everything will fall into place for you. But someone’s jealous of what you have and will try to subvert your paradigm. Keep this in mind as you go through the day — you know who it is and how to counteract their bad vibes.

Meet Pisces Singles

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Dating horoscopes Feb 27

February 27th, 2009

Aries: People are talking, but all you hear is ‘Wa wa wa wa wa.’ You’re just unfocused and totally disinterested in the pomp and circumstance of life. Lay low for the time being. When your head starts to clear up, get involved. But don’t rush: better to go at your own pace.

Meet Aries Singles

Taurus love horoscope Taurus: If you’ve been feeling a bit squirmy in a relationship, things start to turn around for the better. Whether it’ll last is up to the stars, but for now, just enjoy the sunny side of the street. Companionship, fun and flirting are where it’s at!

Meet Taurus Singles

Gemini love horoscope Gemini: Your creativity’s on a tear right now, so whether you’re alone or hanging out with a certain someone, do something original. Dress up in an outfit and hit the town, create a website, write some lyrics or finish up that craft project. The momentum is in your court.

Meet Gemini Singles

Cancer love horoscope Cancer: The holding pattern is getting old. One day it’s on the other, it’s off. It’s time to have ‘the talk.’ Before you talk of any sort of commitment, define what it is you’re looking for. Without any sort of goal or expectation in mind, you’ll appear confused and, even worse, needy.

Meet Cancer Singles

Leo love horoscope Leo: If you’ve experienced any changes in your romantic relationship status lately, take it slow and give it some time to settle in. The transition should be casual rather than deliberate. Don’t apply too much pressure or all your hard work will go to waste.

Meet Leo Singles

Virgo love horoscope Virgo: If you’re not sure about this person, think about how you feel when he or she touches you. Do you melt in ecstasy? Or does a kiss send you into a fit of PTSD? Your reaction to sensation should quell any doubts you’re harboring. Let your nerves do the talkin’.

Meet Virgo Singles

Libra love horoscope Libra: Dirty-mouthed, sex-craved lunatics, though irresistible, should fall off your list of potential candidates. Anyone who reverts to shock value to make an impression is missing the mark (and a few marbles). Look for quality: people who act like gentlemen and ladies.

Meet Libra Singles

Scorpio love horoscope Scorpio: If you’re overly concerned with his sweaty armpits and her sloppy grammar, it’s okay. Superficial details tell a lot about a person so pay attention to that stuff. Even if it’s not the ultimate deal breaker, it’ll come in handy when it comes to making the final determination.

Meet Scorpio Singles

Sagittarius love horoscope Sagittarius: Watch out for the friendly offers of others to set you up on dates. Don’t do it unless you seek lots of clarification. Find out from the matchmaker what you have in common with this particular candidate. If you’re unsatisfied with their answer, pass.

Meet Sagittarius Singles

Capricorn love horoscope Capricorn: Don’t be surprised to find yourself on the dullest date ever with a person who asks you questions just so he or she can impress you with their answers. End it early with a feigned headache or emergency — or if you’re feeling extremely honest, the truth never hurts either.

Meet Capricorn Singles

Aquarius love horoscope Aquarius: You may lead someone on without even knowing it, so be kind. If you don’t intend on calling them or seeing them ever again, don’t say it. Remember, these are adults, and if they can’t handle the let down, well, that’s not your fault. As long as you side of the street is clean, you’re good to go.

Meet Aquarius Singles

Pisces love horoscope Pisces: If your most recent date was a flop, but you sensed a spark, give it another chance. Meeting people, especially under the auspices of getting to know each other, is awkward. Of course things will seem weird and tense. Don’t let a mediocre first date ruin an awesome opportunity!

Meet Pisces Singles

Love horoscopes Feb 20

February 20th, 2009

Aries - Stop living among the ghosts of the pasts. What happened in high school or even yesterday doesn’t matter. Nobody really cares about all that, and neither should you. Learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them. Keep your side of the street clean.

Taurus - If you’re not interested in the stock market or poetry, why do you force it down your throat? Give it up already. Nobody’s really all the impressed with this useless info. You’re better off just being yourself for now  -  -  that’s what the hotties want, after all.

Gemini - Clean, simple, totally minimal. If you could achieve this ideal, you’d experience a Zen - like existence (and never hesitate to invite someone over). Pick a room, any room and start there. Untangle cords, put away underwear and shred paperwork. Get rid of the clutter.

Cancer - The flake? They’ve gotta go. You spend way too much time scheduling stuff with person only so they’ll blow you off at the last minute. The world’s full of hottie and cuties waiting to meet you. If your pal can’t commit, find companionship elsewhere. It’s okay to be honest.

Leo - Passive - aggressive behavior isn’t becoming, especially on you. If you don’t like someone, why pretend? A little unbridled hostility never hurt anyone, and it’s okay to dislike a certain someone. But be genuine. Don’t tell them what you think they want to hear.

Virgo - Maybe it’s time to get away. When you can’t escape all those ugly reminders of the past, nothing but a break will do. And no, you don’t have to travel across the globe to do it. Take a day off and go somewhere overnight, or spend the weekend away by yourself.

Libra - Your hunch about a person or a situation turns out to be totally right on. This doesn’t mean you should go around waving your finger and saying ‘I told you so.’ Chiding will only cause resentment. Better to show your support whether you agree or not.

Scorpio - Some type of mystery or enigma scrambles your brain right now. This one calls for reinforcement, so ask a pal for help. You’ll uncover something from your past that’s totally relevant to the present. Even if it doesn’t clear up the problem at hand, it sheds light on a long - held riddle.

Sagittarius - You’re thrust in the spotlight. What else can you do but dance your butt off? People aren’t paying attention to the missteps, by the way. They’re in awe of your awesome performance. Don’t be surprised to receive a congratulatory gift from an interesting admirer afterward.

Capricorn - When the topic of conversation ruffles your feathers today, don’t have a hissy fit. Instead, illuminate your perspective. Show others where you’re coming from. It might create friction at first, but as the understanding sinks in, you’ll walk away with a few unexpected allies.

Aquarius - The precautions you’ve taken over the past months or years are finally paying off  -  -  and how. Aren’t you glad you didn’t listen to everyone else? Pat yourself on the back and bask in your glory. Someone romantically interested in you notices and admires your acumen.

Pisces - Don’t let someone attack an issue or cause you feel strongly about. Instead of vaguely nodding in disagreement, vehemently uphold your stance. Being right or wrong isn’t the issue  -  -  it’s about principles and you have lots of ‘em. Stand up for what you believe in!

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Dating horoscopes for Feb-9-2009

February 9th, 2009

Aries-Don’t be surprised if those strays at the pet store tug at your heartstrings. Whoa! Before you run off and buy a cat or dog, or add to your menagerie, consider the commitment. Are you ready to devote at least 10 years of your life to its care? Probably not. Wait a while.

Taurus-An unrealized dream is a total waste — so why aren’t you actively pursuing your passion? Okay, even if you’re too old to be a rock star, you can still take singing lessons and perform in front of others. Make your dreams happen now!

Gemini-Accept what you can’t change; change what you can. If you’re tired of your life, do something about it. Date more, date less, find a lover, get in a relationship, go snorkeling — stop waiting for life to happen. You do have control over the outcomes.

Cancer-Loneliness is totally preventable, so wipe away those tears and get out there. Everyone is afraid of being judged — consider that when you’re in the world. Nobody’s talking to you? So what! Talk to them. Melt that chill with your warmth.

Leo-Flexibility is key. Just when you think you’ve planned everything to the smallest detail, it all falls apart. And it’s totally out of your control. Now’s a great time to have a Plan A and B, and if you’re really resourceful throw in a Plan C just for good measure.

Virgo-Your blade’s a little rusty and dull — when’s the last time you sharpened it? No wonder your game’s totally off. Devote at least an hour to yourself today — rejuvenate and revitalize. Take a deep breath and consider your next move: the meat market’s open!

Libra-A massive wave of great energy is coming your way — hop on a surfboard and ride it to shore. Anything is possible now, so just go for it. You can accomplish anything you set your mind to: seek the impractical and talk to anyone and everyone who’s out of your league.

Scorpio-Those little aches and pains concern you. If you have an ailment that’s been bothering you for a while, now’s a great time to deal with it. Don’t hesitate to make a doctor’s appointment. The diagnosis is minor and should be cleared up ASAP.

Sagittarius-A friend or friends come to the rescue with an interesting proposition — listen to it even if it sounds totally out there. They’re looking out for your best interests. Join in their fun and go along for the ride. You’ll meet the most enigmatic person along the way.

Capricorn-Don’t be surprised to find yourself all alone on a mission you and several others set out to work on together. When did everyone bail out? Guess what? You’ve been the only one into it for a long time. Cut the dead weight and continue on — you’re doing a great job!

Aquarius-Someone does exactly what you predicted they’d do — not surprising. Your sense of perception is extremely sharp lately. So don’t worry too much about the actions of everyone else. They know that you know what’s up.

Pisces-If you wake up groggy and grouchy and offend a few people early in the day, that’s okay. They get it. Just don’t forget to make amends later in the afternoon or this evening for your transgressions. No, it’s not necessary, but you’ll sure feel better about yourself.

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Love Horoscopes for Jan-31-2009

January 31st, 2009

Love Horoscopes for Jan-31-2009

Aries love horoscope Aries: Dwelling on the minutiae is no way to start the morning. In fact, if you can’t greet the day with a kind face and a warm embrace, maybe you should just go back to bed (if you can) or spend some time alone. Why hang onto such toxic stuff on such a beautiful day? Let it go!

Meet Aries Singles

Taurus love horoscope Taurus: Work should stay at work. When you’re out on the town or hangin’ with a hottie, don’t dwell on the goings-on at the office. This is your time to have fun. So turn of all the gadgets — besides it’s tacky to text or talk on the phone in the presence of others.

Meet Taurus Singles

Gemini love horoscope Gemini: Backstabbers beware! (Including you). If you’re going around badmouthing everyone in any aspect of your life, you’re creating lots of ugly mojo. The dating gods do not look kindly on the two-faced. So, swallow that bile and keep it in its place. Vent when you’re alone at home.

Meet Gemini Singles

Cancer love horoscope Cancer: The fate of the earths weighs heavily on your shoulders. Learn more about environmental issues and put them into practice. One day a week vow to avoid processed food — that means nothing packaged or out of season, and no meat! Fill your body veggies, rice and water.

Meet Cancer Singles

Leo love horoscope Leo: Sometimes being bad is oh so good! Sure, you should go to bed, but when you’re in the middle of an awesome conversation or a great time, it’s okay to skimp on the sleep. You can’t help it — living just gets in the way. You’ll have plenty of time later to catch some ZZZs.

Meet Leo Singles

Virgo love horoscope Virgo: Everything that needs to said has already been said — that’s where you’re coming from today. Not so — speak up. You definitely have something new to add to the conversation. In fact, your experience will help someone relate and solve their own longstanding problem.

Meet Virgo Singles

Libra love horoscope Libra: Don’t have enough money? Yes, actually you do. It’s simple Econ 101 — are you using your scarce resources to highest and best use? Instead of spending $5 on a mocha every day, divert that cash into a special account. After a year, you’ll have enough for an awesome vacation!

Meet Libra Singles

Scorpio love horoscope Scorpio: Opposites attract — sure. But consider the comfort of likeness. Seek romantic interests who possess similar backgrounds: religion, worldview, politics and so on. Sometimes, it’s easier to bridge the gap over a shorter span. Like attracts like.

Meet Scorpio Singles

Sagittarius love horoscope Sagittarius: Take some time to review your goals. Expect at least one, if not two major events to throw you for a loop. And if your path isn’t clearly cut, you may get lost in the jungle. Don’t hesitate to retool your objectives and bolster the weak spots.

Meet Sagittarius Singles

Capricorn love horoscope Capricorn: Interesting opportunities abound, right underneath your nose. If you aren’t friends with your neighbors, get to know them. If you are, expand your scope. Simply knock on a door and introduce yourself. Put yourself out there — link up with the community.

Meet Capricorn Singles

Aquarius love horoscope Aquarius: Things in the technological realm are vulnerable — that means you’re vulnerable. If you haven’t backed up your files, ran anti-virus software or changed your passwords lately, it’s time for a little housecleaning. It won’t take long and the payoff is way worth it.

Meet Aquarius Singles

Pisces love horoscope Pisces: Verbosity and sarcasm work against you right now, especially in the dating realm. So take a look at your online profile. If it’s long, dull and full of schmaltz, take some time to tighten it up. Shorten the verbiage, update the photo and don’t mention sex — it’s just tacky.

Meet Pisces Singles

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Online Dating Tips 2009

January 4th, 2009

Advantages of Online Dating.

1. Huge variety of women and men to choose from <unlike bars & parties>

2. Find men or women based on age, race, height and more specific details

3. Use matchmaking to find the right person for you.

4. If you get rejected its not as bad as face to face

5. If you have trouble with body language, appearance and such, online dating will help you to get started with conversation

6. You have time to chose your words carefully, unlike face to face conversation.

7. Lame competition. Most of me that are naturals dont use free online dating services.

Ending the Date Gracefully

November 18th, 2008

At first glance, it would seem easy to know when a date is over. The empty
dishes have been cleared off your table, the check is paid, the theater lights
are up, or the sun has risen. There are definitely markers. But dating is an
emotional event. What’s an empty restaurant and five glaring waiters when
this could be true love? Plus, if things are going well, you’re also battling your
biology.
When you’re in the throes of infatuation, a chemical in your brain called
phenylethylamine (PEA) causes those tingly feelings of euphoria. Other neurochemicals,
namely norepinephrine and dopamine, may also play a part in
your “lover’s high.” These natural “uppers” are what cause lovers to stay
awake all night gazing into each other’s eyes or talking into the wee hours of
the morning. Sadly, or perhaps thankfully, this chemically induced elation
fades. Your brain can’t stay in a revved-up state forever!
Pacing yourself may seem like a waste of time if you and your date have
clicked from the start. But in the long run, it’s always better to leave them
wanting more than feeling like it was just this side of too much. Assuming
your date has gone well, you want the
end of your first date to be the beginning of a beautiful relationship, not the
grand finale of one memorable night. Especially when you met this person at an online dating site, like DatingIdol.com. Now its time for me starting write some notes, lol.

New looks to Blogs on my dating website.

November 17th, 2008

I was thinking to redesign my blog on Dating Idol website for a long time. Finally, I got some time this weekend to tweak the looks of it. The old design was extremely simply and the new design was simpler to implement but from my personal thoughts, it looks more professional compare to the old one. But its very disappointing given such Nice features, people at my online dating site, they never seem to use it :(. I have tested the new looks with ie7, firefox and google’s chrome, all browsers rendered the blog design fine.

Feel free to check my online dating website, Dating Idol. Here is the link to my blog there Administrator Blog

The True Meaning of LOVE - A Touching Story

November 13th, 2008

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before I met him at an Online Dating site, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. . . I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow…. ” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting. …. and as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk…

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread…… Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love while dating that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments…

Few change to my Dating Website

November 11th, 2008

I had to make minor changes to my Dating site design wise, which I personally didnt like it, but I had to make that change for Mr. Google. I have never ever figured out, why my dating site takes a beating in search engine ranking position. I made the website as good as possible - probably has the all the features compared to other high paid dating websites. I will have to see, if Mr. Google will prefer this new design of my website.  Feel free to check out my Online dating website.

If you got any good opinion or suggestions for my website drop your feedback below. And Mr. Google, if you are reading this, please start dating with my website again :) and settle for a long term relationship or marriage would be perfect.

Dating Your Relative’s Ex

October 31st, 2008

This is just a specialized and potentially even more toxic case of dating a best
friend’s ex. I actually know a man who married the sister of his girlfriend of
seven years. You can imagine family Thanksgivings are more than a little
strained. Again, if the two of you feel star-crossed, at least wait a while, and
then don’t share the details but do tell the relative before they find out via
the family grapevine. If at all possible, avoid this plight. If you can’t avoid it,
make sure that your motives are pure, and you’re not acting out of some
ancient feud or competition. Best place to stumble upon on Ex’s are on an online dating site, so make sure to register and meet some cool people.

Senior dating

October 31st, 2008

As we get older and wiser, online dating should get easier, but I’m not sure it ever
really does. If you’re a senior (65 or older), this book may be particularly
useful to figure out what’s changed and what’s the same old story.
If you’re divorced, it’s a good idea to keep your kids in the dark for as long as
possible. Don’t wait until the wedding or the funeral, but reading the section
on single parent dating applies regardless of the age of the “child.”
If you’re widowed, don’t be surprised to find your offspring fairly resistant to a
new date. When it comes to our parents, we’re kinda frozen in amber.

If you’ve never been married, ask yourself why not and what you’re looking
for now (see Part I for information on how to find out about yourself and
what you want).

There are several huge advantages to senior dating:
 Women don’t have to worry about getting pregnant.
 Men don’t have to worry about borrowing the family car.
 You don’t have to ask your parents what time you have to be home
(although you may end up answering to your kids).
 You don’t have to worry about your braces locking when you kiss
(although you may have to worry about your canes knocking).
 Long-term commitment has a whole different meaning.
 You can shop together for eternal housing — a really long-term
commitment.
 You don’t have to worry what religion to raise the kids in.

Serial dating

October 31st, 2008

How people date has changed radically through
the years. Chaperones and arranged marriages
are things of the past. Dating a number of people
simultaneously until you could focus on one has
become much less popular due to time involvement
and sexual issues focusing on easily transmittable
and potentially fatal diseases.
The idea of dating one person for awhile until
you either marry or find a reason to move on has
become much more common than at any other
time in human history. While having some obvious
health advantages, serial dating has much
more room for intensity that can be difficult in
the early days of getting to know someone,
lethargy about moving on when faced with the
daunting task of starting over, and mixed and
incompatible messages about the future of any
particular situation.
If I ran the dating world, I would have males and
females hang out in groups for long periods of
time without pairing off. Once the pairings
began, I would encourage multiple pairings (not
necessarily sexual) to allow knowledge of each
other as well as self to proceed with little pressure
to “decide.” Because of the emphasis on
commitment (prematurely as far as I’m concerned),
if things aren’t going swimmingly, there
is a tendency to move on to the next relationship
rather than the next stage of a relationship or to
remain in a relationship that has become static,
because moving on is not possible and moving
out seems too scary and uncertain.
Serial dating is moving on to the next person
rather than the next stage. Simultaneous dating
allows more time with less intensity to explore
who each of you is and what each of you wants
as long as the relationships are not sexual until
both partners are prepared for commitment and
exclusivity. This more restrained approach
allows for self-awareness, friendship, trust, and
compatibility to precede sexual involvement.

Writing High-Quality Dating Profiles-part3

October 24th, 2008

A picture says a thousand words

Clip a photo that’s realistic and not misleading. There are all sorts of pictures that
people post on the web which are quite dishonest, a bit obscene, of poor quality,
and sometimes too formal. The best photo should reveal the normal “you”, since, if
you are dead set on meeting someone you don’t want her to get the shock of her life.
Some photos are lewd and show too much skin just to catch attention. If you are
seriously into online dating site, post a clear, sunny picture of yourself - this is sure to elicit
positive responses from people. Don’t glamorize yourself or post a picture of you
wearing a high school toga.

Polish your profile
Choose the right words and use your grammar or spelling program to polish your
profile. People care about your spelling and grammar because it reflects your
education. At least, show some decency when creating your profile, “The difference
between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between
lightning and a lightning bug,” says Mark Twain. If you’ve written your profile in a
hurry, don’t attempt to post it yet when you have not proofread it for grammatical
and spelling errors. Use your handy word processor programs to clean it for possible
mistakes.
Research the competition
This is what we call the “look, listen, and learn” step. Go ahead and search for
yourself after you’ve published your ad. If you see yourself in the page of search
results and your existing ad doesn’t “jump” off the page at you as a reader – consider
revising your ad to play off the surrounding.
For example, you search for your ad only to find that you’re surrounded mostly by
guys using cheesy one-liners and looking for something to screw in between football
games you might modify your ad title/introduction to say something like;
“Waiter, I ordered my pickup lines without cheese”
“While they’re watching football, we can watch a movie”

Be original but don’t overdo it.
Your originality is a major factor for an attractive profile. Search yourself for any
unusual interests and unique characteristics. If you like art, for instance, mention
specifically if you’ve ever painted or done some digital designing yourself, and what
kind of design software you like to use. A good novel writer does not use bland
adjectives and describe in nebulous concepts. You’re not a novel writer but your goal
is to make your online profile more interesting. All of us have normal ways of doing
things but if you got something to tell - a passion for exotic animals, or a collection
of snow gears - don’t hesitate to include it in your profile.

Writing High-Quality Dating Profiles-part2

October 24th, 2008

The introduction is your own personal summary
Your introduction should be just as attractive. When you compose your introduction
line it must be intriguing enough to compel your reader to continue on. Generally
you’re limited on the size of your introduction to anywhere from a few hundred
words up to 1,000. Make this count and keep it pretty much to the point.
Avoid clichés like the plague
Don’t bother with clichés and other trite phrases. Being unoriginal and typecast may
work for bands like Nickleback but it won’t get you laid - avoid the usual titles at all
costs. The secret is to be as specific as possible: name a strange incident or
experience, an eerie quote from your favorite author, or a bit of a background that
would define who you are. I personally find it best to write a draft first then revise
it, which brings us to the next topic…
Some common clichés that you see all the time:
Love is a many splendored thing.
It sure is, but this cliché is used so often that no “love” will come from it.
All things grow with love.
Again, same situation. It sounds great but is so overused that it will not garnish any
attention.
Make it count, condense your draft.
No one wants to read a wordy profile that conveys no message. Many free online dating site profiles
suffer in the dark oblivion without hope of getting looked at because they fail to
relate anything interesting about the author to the person reading. You might be the
most romantic, handsome, charismatic guy in the world but you’re online appearance
is that of a 14 year old who can’t spell or form complete sentences. Put some time
into the “flow” of your summary. Make it count, it’s the second most important part
of your online profile.

Writing High-Quality Dating Profiles-part1

October 24th, 2008

Not all people are blessed with the knack of writing an excellent dating profile.
Doing it is a lot like composing an ad that is meant to attract potential buyers - it has
to be convincing, appealing and honest (to a degree). If it’s your first time to design
your own dating profile, here are the nuts and bolts to guide you.

Just a little note to the ladies: Most of the examples I use are for men. Women tend
not to have problems getting responses from guys inside online dating sites (guys usually
blast out messages to just about anyone, women are more specific). If you need
advice on writing a good female ad many of these rules still apply, so fear not and
keep reading.

Titles are the most important part of an ad
Use a catchy and interesting title. Since everyone is going to read your profile, you
should make it as original, honest and easy to remember as possible. Get your ideas
from your own interests , experiences, and personality but don’t just say you’re
spontaneous and exciting – prove it! Above all - you’ve got to be unique (very, very
unique)
Examples of good and bad titles:
Fun guy looking for fun girl.
Too general, no one looks for dull girls – an no fun girls look through dull profiles.
Let me show you what a real man is like.
Immediately after which they’ll show you the ‘block user button’ this is way to
intimidating and challenging to a mate.
Will you guide my way?
Approaching “decent” level profile title. It definitely stands out from the others but
most women are looking for a package with all it’s nuts and bolts – no assembly
required if you know what I mean.
LOST: True love, reward if found.
Bingo, though it’s pretty general the title is definitely unique and will get the reader
past the initial first click. The introduction should reflect a caring, compassionate,
and romantic person just like the title indicates.
Skydiving accountant seeking rock-climbing business woman
Another good one liner. The activity describes the person so much more than just an
adjective like “exciting” or “adventurous” could.

Dating idol features daily love horoscope

September 29th, 2008

Dating Idol has started displaying daily love horoscope for its member. A great tool for Dating Idol members to know when to make that move or when is the right time to ask someone out.

So feel free to check your todays - Love Horoscopes at Dating Idol - Free Online Dating website

Dating game plan

September 18th, 2008

In today’s’ world, being single and trying to find the right relationship is one of the greatest challenges we face. We can’t afford to leave this to luck and chance, not if we truly intend to have every opportunity to have the most satisfying relationships possible. Hence, registering at free online dating site facilitate in your venture of discovering that significant other which will complete you. If having a fulfilling personal life, having people to spend time with who you like and share values with and having quality relationships is as important as having the right job, then its worth having a Dating Game Plan – which means taking the review the personals for social opportunities, look for singles and being expanding your world. It means taking charge of your dating life and making it what you want. It also means being as savvy and assertive in your personal life.

Even so-called matchmaking services provided by superior online dating sites are capable only of making educated guesses about who is a potential partner for you, and they frequently foul up. Even with obvious factors that are quite easy to screen for this dating service had wasted lot of time, money and emotional energy of many members. Matchmaking services make mistakes which aren’t surprising, as members can lie on their profile and matchmaking was created by human beings like us. Matchmaking has its limitations, as we well are, in their capacity to accurately determine in advance which two surveys and even inventories and match people on the basis of that kind of information. Even with in-depth dating forums profiles of members, they will never be able to predict: the chemistry or the intellectual, emotional and sexual connection that just seems to occur between certain people is as unpredictable as failing in love. We can’t make ourselves falling in love any more than we can force ourselves to be attracted to certain people.