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I think that you’re on the right track here.
When she came to you to tell you that her
parents didn’t approve of you, and you responded
by saying, “I don’t care what your parents think,
I’m not here to please them”, you effectively made
yourself MORE powerful in her heart AND mind than
even her parents.
I’m taking a wild guess here, but I’ll bet that
when she came to you to tell you this, she was
telling you because she was thinking of breaking
off the relationship and this was her way of
“introducing” the idea.
When you responded by saying, “I don’t care
what they think”, you probably scrambled her
signal a little. She was probably confused, but
MORE IMPORTANTLY, she was probably EMOTIONALLY
ATTRACTED to you at the same time.
This combination of confusion, emotional
attraction, and you asserting yourself as more
powerful than her parents because you didn’t care,
is almost unstoppable.
As you say - “Every dating advisor stresses
male confidence”. The more I’ve thought about
this, the more I realize that the FOUNDATION for
confidence is LACK OF INSECURITY.
In other words, if you want to be confident,
you have to START by getting over the things that
you’re insecure about. Once you do this, you’ll
realize that “confidence” isn’t really that
important at all.
Women are generally attracted to men who don’t
need APPROVAL from anyone. Call it confidence if
you want. But, I think it comes down to becoming
secure in the world and comfortable in your own
skin.
ON YOUR SUGGESTIONS OF CRITERIA AND EJECTING A
WOMAN AFTER INFIDELITY…
It’s a GREAT idea to be VERY selective and to
let women know about it, EVEN IF SHE’S YOUR
“TYPE”. Women are generally more attracted to men
who are more selective.
Of course, it is important to keep high
standards in life, because they usually lead to
better results in general.
And in response to your recommendation to dump
a woman at the first sign of infidelity…
This is probably a good policy.
But, there’s something else that you should
probably take away from this as well.
If a woman isn’t loyal, there’s a good chance
that either:
1) You did a poor job selecting the type of woman
to have a relationship with in the first place…
…and/or…
2) You stopped doing the things that created the
ATTRACTION in the relationship, and turned into a
WUSSY.
In either case, there’s something to learn and
improve in the future inside of YOURSELF.
YOU must learn how to KEEP HER INTEREST over
the long-haul if you want to “cheat-proof” your
relationship.
…and on another note… I really believe that
there’s more than meets the eye when it comes to
success with women and dating.
The process that creates the magic emotion of
ATTRACTION is mysterious, seemingly illogical, and
“counter intuitive”. If you don’t understand it,
then it just won’t make sense.
It’s taken me literally YEARS to be able to
both attract women AND be able to explain how to
do it.
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