***QUESTION***
Masta D,
I give credit when credit is due, I want to thank
you for solving a whole lot of the puzzle for me,
and for spending several hours on these
newsletters.
After a year of learning and practicing your stuff
I am finding just how powerful it actually is.
Your last newsletter of conversation topics was a
big help, and the ‘just friends’ thing is a real
killer. Dave, i have a quick question- This
beautiful women asks me “Will I ever have a chance
with you?” I’m proud of that and all, but in order
to amplify the attraction would I simply say
“no”…or how would you answer it differently?
Thanks man I’ll get your audio series soon, D from
CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
“Masta D”, huh?
I kind of like the sounds of it. Maybe I should
quit this whole biz, and go into producing rap.
I’ll think about it.
As for your situation, I have ideas.
What you have is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what
usually happens. Most GUYS are thinking “I don’t
have a chance with this girl” etc.
When a woman asks a question like this, it
means that she’s feeling VERY insecure, because
she knows that she’s dealing with a man who has
OPTIONS.
She “gets it” that you can go out and meet
women any time you want, and she’s exposing this
insecurity to you by asking questions like this.
If I were you, I’d answer:
“Well, let me think about it” or “A chance to
do what?” or “What are you willing to offer in
exchange?”… in a COCKY & FUNNY tone of voice.
When a woman asks you a serious question like
this in a needy tone of voice, you need to kind of
diffuse the situation, but keep the energy going.
When you answer with a confusing, funny,
arrogant answer, it takes the negative tension out
of the air (because you used humor), and it adds
some positive tension (because you hinted that she
does).
This is a great opportunity to use your Cocky &
Funny material, so do it!
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I know you’ve heard this before, but you really
are a genius. I am a 35yo physician with good
looks and muscular built, but had the worst luck
with women. After medical school, I thought I
would have no problem with women because I was a
doctor. WRONG!! I was a WUSS!!
After reading your ebook, I only wished I knew
this stuff 15yrs ago. This information is
priceless, I would have paid thousands of dollars
for this. The cost is truly a steal. Many, many,
many thanks. Question: Do you think it’s wise to
use these techniques on women at work?
P.F. Chattanooga, TN
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks for the compliments. I get a lot of
email from guys who are athletes, bodybuilders,
naturally handsome, etc. that say the same
things… if you don’t have the right attitude,
understanding, and skills, then the looks alone
are almost useless.
And on the other hand, if you have the
attitude, understanding, and skills, then looks
aren’t even that important…
I’m glad you’re having the success you’ve
always wanted. It’s a great feeling, isn’t it?
As for your question, I personally think that
women you work with are great to PRACTICE on, but
horrible to DATE.
Everything is great until you BREAK UP. Then it
might turn into your worst nightmare at dating
My rule “Don’t dip your pen in the company
ink.”
This article is from David Deangelo Newsletter and have been submitted by the architect of free online dating site, know as Dating Idol