The bigger the challenge you are, and the more
intense the sexual tension, the more aroused a
woman will become… so that when you finally do
connect physically it’s pure electricity.
Again, most men can’t HANDLE sexual tension.
They feel uncomfortable when the situation isn’t
“clear cut”, and they screw things up.
One of the things you mentioned doing was
“shrugging off” her obvious “come ons” to you.
This kind of thing makes no sense to most guys.
But it makes sense to me.
And it made a LOT of sense to HER.
When a woman throws out a sexual comment, etc.
most guys screw it up. That’s because they don’t
know the SECRET about these types of comments.
When you’re a major challenge, it naturally
means that she’s not IN CONTROL of the situation.
Attractive women are USED to being in control,
so when they’re NOT in control, they get agitated.
It really bothers them.
So they TEST. They use all kinds of interesting
tricks and tactics to see if you’re just FAKING
like you’re actually in control of yourself and
the situation.
One of the most obvious tests is throwing out a
sexual comment.
She might mention that she loves sex, or that
she thinks you guys have a chance of “hooking up”,
or some other “tease”.
But make no mistake about it, these comments
are not at all the innocent remarks that they
appear to be.
She’s watching VERY closely to see if you’ll
take the bait.
It’s a woman’s last resort when she feels like
she isn’t controlling the situation to see if
you’ll crumble to SOMETHING. — If you say
something like, “Really? You think we’re going to
hook up? That would be cool.” Then she KNOWS SHE’S
IN CONTROL.
If you say, “Yeah, you think so? I don’t know,
I’m not that easy…” then it just dials up the
tension, mystery, and challenge.
OK, so you’ve asked me a couple of questions as
well…
What should you do NEXT time you see her to
keep the tension building…?
Well, if something works, KEEP DOING IT.
If she enjoyed it the first time, do it again.
This time wait a little longer. Make her think
about it a little bit more.
Women LOVE anticipation. They love to feel the
rush that something is going to happen… but not
know WHEN.
If you REALLY want to take things to the next
level, take a page from popular movies and romance
novels.
Don’t just kiss her. Kiss her PASSIONATELY.
Pull her body into yours as you kiss her.
Then push her away and say, “You’re bad!”
Stop for awhile. Make her think about it. Then
start again when she isn’t expecting it.
These are the types of things that make women
think about you all the time when you’re gone…
and call you in the middle of the night because
they want to see you. Really.
Most men are so damn BORING when it comes to
this stuff! They do NOTHING to make a woman FEEL
the powerful feelings that she’s always wanted to
feel.
You be the one to do it, and you’ll be the one
she always wants around.
Your second question was about ending calls and
conversations first.
The REASON why you should end all conversations
and other interactions with women first is that it
conveys a clear message:
“I’M A BUSY GUY. I HAVE A LIFE.”
It turns YOU into the one that’s desirable.
Most guys cling, and try to keep a woman on the
phone for a long time. They desire a woman’s
attention and approval, and they make it clear
that this is what they’re after.
Of course, this only demonstrates pure WEAKNESS
to an attractive woman.
And weakness (or Wussness) isn’t ATTRACTIVE.
If you run into a woman who’s always on the
run, don’t let it get to you. To put it
differently, don’t become obsessed with her just
because she’s never available!
The answer is to just take things to the next
level.
Here’s a GREAT little technique…
An amazing and simple way to handle this kind
of thing is to just say “OK, bye” without any
other comments.
She says “I have to go, my friends are waiting
for me outside”. Just say “OK, bye” and SHUT UP.
80% of the time, she’ll say “No, wait! I’m just
really busy, call me in a few days” etc.
You can’t “kind of” do this.
You have to be READY.
She’s TESTING you by playing hard to get. It’s
a game. Have fun with it.
As soon as she says “I have to go, my laundry
is in the dryer”, you SHOOT back “OK, bye” in a
VERY abrupt tone and SHUT UP.
It will create a funny, uncomfortable silence
for just a second.
Most of the time, she’ll say something in a
tone of voice that says “That was weird”, and then
she’ll give some kind of explanation or ask you
why you were so short with her.
Of course, this is a great opportunity to bust
her balls and create some fun banter.
Again, you’ll often have her say something like
“I’m really busy right now. I’m sorry. Call me
tomorrow and let’s do something”. At this point,
you can say “Yeah, if you’re lucky. Bye!”
Not cold. Not mean. Just short and to the
point.
Then, when you call her next, it was HER that
asked for the call.
You get to call up and say “Well, last time we
talked you were begging me to call you… and I
felt so bad for you that I finally broke down.”
What we’re talking about here is DESIRE… and
more importantly, INCREASING IT.
In most interactions with women there is an
opportunity to SPARK the chemistry… the sexual
tension… the desire… and then there are many
opportunities to AMPLIFY that desire for free dating.
But here’s the BAD news:
If you do not understand all of the little
steps from the first meeting to the bedroom, and
know exactly how to smoothly progress from one
step to the next, then you’re going to keep
failing with women.
It’s that simple.
If you DO understand all of the steps, and you
know EXACTLY what to do in order to smoothly
transition from one to the next, then you are MUCH
more likely to succeed.
One of the most IMPORTANT steps is controlling
your own emotions. If you’re nervous and freaked
out, then you’ll make her nervous.
We humans can SMELL fear and nervousness… and
women are the best at it.
If you’d like to get an ADVANCED education in
how to control your own emotions, how to spark
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As you learn the concepts and techniques and
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You’ll IMMEDIATELY notice the different way
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You’ll begin to see all of the reasons why you
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This article is from David Deangelo Newsletter and have been submitted by the architect of free online dating site, know as Dating Idol