How can such a simple thing as striking up a conversation be so hard? Because we make it harder than it has to be, that’s how. Most things aren’t as difficult as we imagine they are, and few things are truly impossible. That applies to most things in life, and it certainly applies to talking to women.
If you’re reading this, then you probably already are the one thing women want most – a man! Don’t be fooled into thinking women are overly picky just because you’ve heard them talk about some gorgeous, rich celebrity they think is sexy. Don’t compare yourself to some fantasy and think you pale by comparison.
Because that’s what the celebrity is – a fantasy. He’s a man most women will never meet, someone who will never ask them out for a drink, never hold them close in his arms for a slow, sexy dance – or a night of smoldering, hot passion. You, however, can do all of those things.
What us women need, and want, is a real man, one we can meet in real life. What we want is you. If you approach us the right way, that is. Handle us right and we’re more than happy to be your every fantasy. What men forget is that women have fantasies, too. If you make us feel fascinating, desirable and beautiful, then you just satisfied some of our biggest needs. And believe me, once you satisfy our needs, we’ll satisfy yours.
Why would I reveal all this to men before dating, tell you how to talk your way into a woman’s heart – and bed? Because too many times I’ve been attracted to men that I didn’t know were also attracted to me. Later, after the sparks of interest had died, I’d learn the things they had been doing were their way of showing interest. But they never said the right thing, never came right out and let me know their interest was far more than friendly. And they never seemed to pick up the signals I was trying to send. So we both ended up frustrated. I’m tired of being frustrated, guys. Most women are. If you want us, let us know. Don’t waste time. Don’t let a spark of attraction go cold when it could easily be fanned into a flame.